PLEASURE

In principle, pleasure is what we feel during sexual intercourse, pleasure is in the touch, as well as in the hug, in the texture of the skin, in the smell and certainly in the kiss.

If, eventually, we compare our sexuality to our gastronomy, we can certainly understand our pleasure and satisfaction in a simpler way.

In this sense, our pleasure is linked to our experiences, our culture, our upbringing, as well as our curiosity and our ability to explore what we like.

SEXTOYS

Os sextoys They are a fun and effective way to explore our bodies, alone or with others, in order to learn what we like and what gives us pleasure.

MASTURBATION

Through masturbation we can explore our body and discover what we like, masturbation is undoubtedly a great tool in our sexuality.

TABOO

Eventually we grow up in a castrating environment where enjoying sex is wrong, as well as where we cannot explore our bodies freely to know what gives us pleasure.

As a result we have difficulty enjoying our sexuality, since we will associate these experiences with ugly and wrong things. Unfortunately, women are more victims of this culture, with more difficulty in experiencing their sexuality to the fullest.

SEXUAL SATISFACTION

Undeniably, penetration is not the only way to have pleasure. In this sense, living a sexuality solely focused on the pleasure of penetration can bring frustration and sexual dissatisfaction. Regardless of whether or not we have any sexual dysfunction.

Certainly, in order to experience full sexuality and maximum pleasure, it is important to explore our entire body and the different forms of pleasure we can feel.

In order to improve our sexual experience, we can eventually prepare the environment to use all the 5 senses: vision, hearing, taste, smell and touch.

In short, the more present and connected we are, the more intense and profound our experience will be.

THE IMPORTANCE OF DIALOGUE IN PLEASURE

Likewise, citing gastronomy as an example, dialogue is very important in order to have more pleasure in our sexual experiences.

We can certainly tell if we like spicier food, as well as if we prefer sweet or savory, or, in some cases, if we are willing to try new things.

In this sense, we should talk not only about what we like about sex, but also demonstrate how we want touch, and possibly talk about what we don’t like.

Certainly with dialogue and sharing we will have a more satisfying and pleasurable experience.